Her body language during the last hour was not good I got her to light up and lean forward once but she wasn't sitting as she was in the restaurant I'm a fast talker and move skittishly. I'm working on speaking slower and improving my body language, but I'm sure I was talking quickly and moving a bit nervously while she was totally composed and calm. I don't have much experience with dating or "game. Most women in their 40s are limited to men in their 50s since guys in 40s would go for girls in 30s , but she's so gorgeous I do not doubt men in their 20s and 30s line up for her.
Which means I probably have a lot of competition and am not the only guy in his 30s asking her out. She's so my type it's scary. I've always loved Indian and Pakistani woman and here is a total winner possibly within my reach. I could care less if she turns out to be 47; she's clever, gorgeous, and has a good sense of humor. Even though I'm white I'm not big into American girls. As most south Asian girls are married early in their 20s, or are not allowed to date outside their own culture, this is a rare opportunity and I will not next her unless she clearly shows no further interest.
You may laugh at this report, as I'm 37 and am supposed to know this stuff.
But I threw away 20 years of my life and didn't really approach or pursue women until a year ago I've stumbled into two relationships, but have generally been clueless about "game" and approaching women. I wish I could be 20 again, but it is what it is and I have to make do with where I am in life now. I'll research whether I should text a quick "good time, let's repeat later this week," and when I should call Thanks for the help so far and wish me the best. PS - She's big on clever and smart. She knows she's beautiful but really likes compliments about her brain. How does "fun meeting you, you are as clever as you are pretty" sound?
Note she's over 40 so this isn't your 20 year old college girl, I'm not looking for a fling nor is she I am perfectly fine being pegged in the BF category, as I'm looking to settle down. PPS - I'm unsure how to escalate if she agrees to another date I'll suggest a 2nd date of a walk in the park where I can try to kiss her on the lips, or play games at Dave and Busters and kiss her on the lips after at the car.
For date 3, I'll invite her back to my place for dinner assuming we get that far. Join Date Apr Gender: Age 34 Posts 2, I read about half Your angle is children. She clearly wants children. Stop getting so hung up by the fact she is Pakistani. In fact, she is Animal, human, woman. Appeal to the woman, appeal to to the animal. Value yourself - you deserve her, you are the prize. You can give her what she wants - stability, support and most of all - children, that's why you are the prize.
Actually, she doesn't want kids The Pakistani angle doesn't change anything I do with her, I run the same game I would with any girl. However since my ultimate goal is to be with a Pakistani or Indian woman, you can see why this is a big opportunity. They aren't exacly everywhere to be found. Anyway, I'll call her tonight or tomorrow, and we'll see how it goes from there. I maintain what I said. She is dying to have children even if she doesn't know it herself.
Don't trust what women say, they don't even know what they want. Want a Pakistani or Indian girl? Go to the villages. You'll get mini celebrity status and easily get into the dating circles and have marriage proposals. Arranged marriages are usually a very quick engagement which can be called off at any time.
Typical Muslim guys are extremely AFC and will buy the woman expensive presents etc and be as nice as possible however many are pretty shrewd. The women come in several categories - 1. Traditional values and easily controlled. These come in 3 separate sub categories: These girls will sleep with you but hate themselves for it. Have to get married for anything to happen. In my experience coconuts are often very good cock teases but give little away and can often love drama and attention, again giving nothing away.
They have no clue about women, are even worse than AFC. Their grooming is as good as their social skills which is to say almost zero. They're sexually repressed and do not know how to interact with women I guess that's why they have arranged marriages. No need to interact with anyone, just pick a picture from a book, meet twice for 30 minutes, then get married. I've been to India due to my job but don't think I want a girl born there. There are just too many differences I want one who's cosmopolitan. This girl is one of them.
However, even then there is a lot of pressure on them to at least marry another of their kind. It's a numbers game I can go out and hit on white girls all day long to get s, but how many "westernized" Indian girls do you run into? That's why she's so valuable to me. I dated another Indian girl before this she was forced into an arranged marriage or we would've been wed by now, it was a perfect relationship , and she took me to the Hindu temples.
I never feel truly comfortable there. You're welcome, but it's awkward. I think it would be a bit worse even at a mosque. There is very little talking and interaction between people there; they just come to worship. It would certainly not be a place to hit on girls. The best place I feel is college, with all the Indian engineering students, but I'm about 15 years too old to go back to school I will keep trying though. It's funny how the guys are awkward but the girls are just the sweetest things without a bitch bone in their body. That's one thing I love about them. Anyway, not really sure what I'm saying with this post.
I decided to not call her tonight and will wait until tomorrow 48 hours. Originally Posted by mkivtt. Join Date Jul Gender: It looks to me that you drew the date too long.
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Next time try planning at least a couple of fun activities set in advance. I would be leery of planning a third date at home; if she accepts, which is doubtful, she ll probably come prepared to resist your advances. With all women, but especially with a potentially conservative as this one, you need to not engage the logical part of her mind. I forgot to clarify something: Join Date Dec Gender: Needless to say she was gorgeous, and from what I've seen the ones who are 2nd and 3rd generatio immigrants are just the same as other Caucasian women.
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If you think Indian women are doormats, well, you haven't met my sister in law. She'll put the fear of God to anyone who thinks she's a pushover Honestly though, I'm married to an Anglo-Indian man. That's a term for an Indian with mix European blood. All of the women in his family are outspoken, modern, and strong-willed. Even his cousin in Calcutta who has never stepped foot in America. I also find Indian women to be more - how should I put it? It may be due to religious thing, I dunno. I also like Indian men because they're very gentlemenly and chivalrous, well at least the Indian men in my circle are like that One experience that's still fresh in my mind was when I had a house party a few years ago: I invited my Indian friends and my new neighbor who's a Pakistani woman.
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The Pakistani woman came to my house first, then her husband followed a bit later it's just across the road, so very informal. She was sitting down on one of my sofas munching on snacks when her husband arrived, then as soon as she saw her husband, she stood up from her seat to give it to her husband. I thought nothing about it but OMG..! All my Indian friends couldn't help but stare at that gesture which turned into a discussion when the couple left.
The men couldn't believe that her husband actually took the seat without second thought as opposed to insisting the wife keeps her seat. The women nodded in agreement with the men. So there you go. Nothing against Brahmans, but you may have to adjust your eating habit drastically if you're dating a Brahman as they're very, very, strict vegan. I once brought a box of Dunkin Donuts to a house of a Brahman family only to be told they don't eat them because they're made from eggs.
I had a relationship with a Pakistani gal. She was born in Pakistan, but moved here in her early teens, so she was fairly Americanized. Every time someone walked by with a dog - even if it was a little purse dog like a Yorkie or a Chihuahua - as soon as she saw it, she'd recoil in terror and yelp. Needy as all sin.
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Even with job and school applications; she knew how to do it, it was just a combination of laziness and what seemed to be a raised-in fear of doing things on her own or thinking for herself. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that this may have been a cultural thing, since every woman in her family was married ASAP and was a housewife.
They were all very nice, but it seemed like that was the status quo. She was quite intelligent and understood anything explained to her Everything had to be designer, or major-label brands, which meant that basically every T-shirt had to say "American Eagle" or "Banana Republic" or something that indicated that it was from a retailer of some prominence. We made frequent trips out to the fashion outlets. And yet, nearly everything she wore was really boring and frumpy However, she was extremely reliable, honest, and dependable - she would always be there if she said she would be, if she told you she'd do something, she'd do it.
She had a great body - very, very curvy hips and thighs, lean stomach, and 36DD chest.