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Use the "Get it Done" app from the city of SD to report and track it. Need a more graphical list of contact numbers for city issues? What is the dating scene like in San Diego for late 20s early 30s? I'm 27 [F] thinking of moving to San Diego - I'm from Temecula originally but left for college and been in Miami the past ish years.

A lot of my friends from California are already settled down and married. Is this a trend in San Diego? Are the pickings slim for a lates female, and will it be difficult for me being single if I move back? CICO is also an important concept to understand. But I forget that being single you got to look good a majority of the time. All that aside you're right though for so many reasons. Being fat not only sucks for people meeting you but it also takes a shit on your confidence to get out there to meet people.

Well as a member of the slightly heavier set community Downvoting wouldn't mean you were wrong. Formerly fat San Diegan, currently jacked San Diegan Took me a few months to slim down, took me two years at this point to build the muscle I have. Let the haters have their downvotes. What you said is true, and their downvotes can't change it. When you live in a conservative desert town with not much to do San Diego has plenty of young unattached people. Economy is good and metro area still growing. Finding an affordable apartment however Don't hesitate to come home to Americas finest city, but be prepared to take a multi-pronged approach.

If you have friends here try to get a roommate to help tap into their network of friends as well as save a boatload on rent for a nice 2br vs for 1 br. Think about living in north park, university heights, hillcrest or South Park vs downtown if you want to find people who aren't mostly into clubbing. I have friends who refuse to date guys they know, so they end up with short term stuff on tinder.

I've only ever met guys through friends and they tend to really be interested. Early 20 year olds don't get married as much here, but someone in their late 20s should be fine! Difficult for a single female in San Diego? Nope not at all. You could even be a 4 or 5 but on a dating app you would still get 40 messages a day. You're going to encounter a lot of men that work in IT with lacking social skills, military who may not be staying in SD long, and men in non-white collar type jobs who are just trying to live the beach lifestyle.

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There are exceptions of course, and the numbers are on your side. I'm a mid 30s male who has been dating off and on in the city with decent success using various dating apps. It's similar to any larger city except there seem to be more single parents and blue collar types here. The Night Clubs usually have really good bands playing just wait for a guy to come up to you and ask you to dance. Also, join some Social Clubs in San Diego there usually are a lot of single men in these clubs that are searching for single women to date and have serious relationships with.

Men love any kind of sporting events like Baseball, Football, Tennis, and Soccer. Try and join a few of these clubs if that is what your interests are. I love all kinds of sporting events. Take care, Frances D. Maybe your looking in the wrong places for men. There are all kinds of single, available men out here to date.

It all depends on what kind of qualities you are looking for? Are you interested in a casual or serious dating relationship with a man? What are your hobbies? Yes, sadly, out here in California this is a very superficial and materialistic state. Men are very visual people and the majority of men want to date women who are in shape and not overweight.

I do understand how men feel because I am the same way I don't want to date a man whose overweight. I want to date a man who works out and take care of himself. Now, if the guy is a little overweight, I would consider dating him if he had the qualities I was looking for like honesty, someone I can trust and respect, a good sense of humor and a good friendship.


What matters most to me is a man's character. Looks aren't everything because for example I have dated a couple of guys who are good looking but are lacking in personality and brains. It gets really boring when I am on a date and we have nothing to talk about. Intelligent men are much more sexy to me. Most women here have serious issues. Many believe they are far too good for most people, even themselves. Many have done very little work on thier psyche and would rather jump from one gold mine to the next.

I have been meeting women on line since and can tell you first hand that they lie just as much as men. I have been approaching women out in society since I was about 14 and have lived in many states and can say the same. Basically it's very hard to find someone of decent quality and substance and I believe this is probably a world wide problem. Although I think I can compare it to a job. We all have faults and pro's which help us through daily life. We all must make sacrifices, at some point, to be in a situation which really makes us flourish. Just like me having retail management jobs where I jumped from job to job.

That perfect mix is hard to find and even when you do find it, always will need work. As humans, we are all a work in progress!! I haven't had sex since Bush was in office Dating in san diego seems pretty tough. There are so many young couples down here, and a lot of them married because of the strong military presence. Not a lot of eligible dudes because there isn't too much industry down here, just a lot of students and old people and military dudes.

I'd go with orange county if you're looking for a husband. Have you even been back to look at this thread at all? Take a look at the main profile pics for Jae, Travis. They're pretty indicative of San Diego's fabulous "selection" of men. Move here at your own peril. But with my dimples and big tits, getting ass is like fishing in a bathtub. I have yet to meet Yvonne IRL, but methinks she's witty and sexy.

Kristin, I'm sure there are quite a few men and possibly women for that matter who would love to be that proverbial fish in her bathtub. Hi Lyane, You can start by talking to some of the friendly men on yelp.

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I do have a few men friends and they give me a lot of insightful information on how men think? I wish you good luck, I am sure you will find someone special just take your time and don't rush into anything. That is the best advice I can give you. This conversation is older than 2 months and has been closed to new posts. Sign Up Log In. Oops, we can't find your location.

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I love the lifestyle, weather and the quality of life seems to be so much better than here. I spend most of my time working, or doing creative hobbies like painting, photography or drawing, and I enjoy yoga, swimming and running. I also love the outdoors and I love to be outside, especially the mountains and the beach. I never go to clubs and I rarely ever go to bars. I don't smoke, I only drink lightly socially, I don't smoke weed or do drugs, I have social skills, I have ambitions in life.

I don't have kids. I don't have an ex lurking in the background or a fwb. Honestly, I can say I have no physical, emotional or mental baggage, my only problem is that I am introverted and don't go out much, or meet new people. I tried online dating in the NYC area and it was awful for me.

Most of the guys here want a non-committed relationship with someone who is ok with being used like an unpaid prostitute, basically a no strings attached type relationship. Enough women do this here that the guys have gotten used to it and assume all women will do it. I just want a normal guy who is attractive to me, is stable, has morals, values his family, has some ambition in life, is compatible with me, makes me laugh, is honest and doesn't do drugs or have issues with an ex, etc.

I also want him to be easy to get along with, and not one of these aggressive rude guys, who are so common around here. I used to be chubby when I was younger but I lost weight in my early 20s because I got into running and swimming. I am not that superficial but yes it's important for me to be attracted to the guy I'm with. I find the guys here to be extremely superficial and very picky about looks. There are just so many gorgeous women in this area and many of them are smart and ambitious , that guys here are quite frankly very spoiled.

On top of that I come from a more traditional southeast European background and I do consider myself to be open-minded to different lifestyles, but I just can't get along with people who are so driven by money and status. I am also tired of the "the world revolves around NYC" mentality that people have here, because it so arrogant and untrue.

So anyway, I am just wondering if the dating scene is any better in San Diego? What are the guys there like?

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Is there any real difference from NYC men? I would appreciate your feedback. Keep being your own person. It does not matter where you are in this world, the only person you need to concern yourself with is you.