You asked to experience TRUE LOVE and the Universe is helping you peel off all the layers of gunk and sludge, dispel all the illusions of what love and romance is all about. This will not be pain free, you will face all your personal dragons and demons.
It will probably not be a fairy tale romance to begin with, but a fairy tale ending is guaranteed no matter what the outcome will be. Because no matter what, the Twin Flame experience always moves you into the life that your soul has prepared for you. It moves you into your personal destiny. The other option is to quit, find someone else and notice that even when decades have gone by that you still dream of that ONE person and have not been able to forget them.
There is only delaying the inevitable. What prolongs the journey for twin pairs is them playing out their karma instead of clearing it out. If you want to know more about speeding up your timeline and how to clear out the karma that is keeping you and your twin apart, instead of having to play it out in your physical reality read this article on how Your Twin Flame drama is not what you think it is, and how to make the journey a lot smoother.
It can very well be that a 3rd party partner is part of the plan that you and your twin scripted for your reunion in this lifetime, just make sure that when you do chose to become intimate with someone else that the other person is not a twin-replacement , a twin-rebound or a twin-bandaid. It may seem really weird to commit to someone and become exclusive with someone, who is not talking to you or maybe even seeing someone else. I mean as soon as you meet your twin, nothing is what it seems to be anymore anyway right?
Still if deep down in your heart, you want a happily ever after with your twin — then committing is the quickest way to get there. We create our own realities by our thoughts and actions. But in order for this to work in your favor, you need to send the Universe very clear intentions and back them up with completely congruent actions.
Committing and saving myself only for my twin, got me in India in his loving embrace in less than a years time. With him sneaking into my room to sleep in each others arms, even though all hell would have broken lose if we had been caught by the Indian family in whose house we were staying.
Now let me clarify that, I met my twin online and had never met him in real life until then. I had been committed to someone I had never touched and never kissed in real life. Even when the Universe had an ex-lover show up in my backyard out of nowhere after four years and this was mr. When I turned this guy down, out of nowhere for the first time since my twin had made a run for it we talked for 5 hours on Whatsapp, he wrote me a beautiful email and then he blew my mind describing to me how he wanted to make love to me. Your thoughts and actions align you to the reality you want to create, when YOU align them to the outcome you want to manifest.
This is Law of Attraction basics we are talking here, you have to create a physical space for that which you want. If this applies to trivial things as new sneakers or bigger things like job, cars and houses, it definitely also applies to lovers. If you want a romantic love relationship with your Twin Flame, you need to be single and not seeing someone.
That way there is room in your life, for your twin to come in as your romantic partner. You get what you give, if you give commitment and exclusivity you align to this frequency and it will be mirrored back into your reality one way or the other. A lot of female twins get very jealous or upset when they see that there twin is back on Tinder or whatever dating site or app.
But why are you on there? Focus instead on what you want to put forth into the Universe. Male Twin Flames use relationships with 3rd party partners as a way to run and hide and they are often very aware of the fact that the relationship with the twin is much deeper and intenser than the one they are hiding in. Female twins also run but in a different way, because they feel rejected by their twin they can run into a relationship with someone else for various reasons but all of them having to do with in some way easing the pain of the rejection.
Instead of facing the pain in whichever way it has been triggered and healing it, they use the relationship with someone else to soften the blow and proving to themselves that they ARE attractive, feminine, lovable , or [ fill in any other kind of wounding ]. This leads to the wounds staying intact and being triggered over and over again. Another great practical joke the Universe can pull on us is presenting us the Twin Flame clone, which is as the word implies another version of your twin except, that you are well aware that the original is the better version.
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When you are the one running or perhaps also running, chances are you will run right into the arms of your Twin Flame clone. They will maybe talk the same way, feel the same way, etc. She thought she was going crazy. The interesting thing was and this was before I fully committed to my twin, was that a friend of mine had just met her husband and things went so smoothly between them that I literally asked the Universe if my twin was not meant for me, to then bring me the husband that was for me.
I figured I could be holding on too much to my twin and not be open enough to the Universe bringing me someone better for example. Immediately I got this friend request from the Twin Flame clone, only to get a full rerun of my Twin Flame story. I knew then and there that if there was anyone I would have such patience with, it would be with my Twin Flame and no one else. The thing is with Twin Flames that even though this is the strongest connection ever, with an immense sexual pull between the twin pair — a lot of Twin Flames have not or are not having sex with each other.
The reason for this being, that being sexually intimate with your twin is the most intense sex there is to begin with, but it also accelerates the purging and healing process. Some twin pairs can clear this way, but for most this is just too intense and it increases the Twin Flame drama. But introducing energies from outside the twin relationship, can also bring difficulties along.
Whether you are having sex with your twin or not, the healing and purging that comes along with the Twin Flame experience also raises your vibrational frequency, sleeping with others while on the Twin Flame journey just brings more new stuff to clear out. Especially for women, because we are the receiving party in sexual engagement. Your actions will not match the desires of your heart, which makes it hard to manifest them.
Even if your twin is seeing someone else, that can change in a twinkling of an eye. Remember, nothing is what it seems to be on the Twin Flame journey. The relationships the Divine masculine twin flees into after he has met his Divine feminine are often not strong foundationed love relationships, built to last a lifetime. Florence Scovel Shinn already wrote about this in What we believe, also subconsciously will manifest in our reality.
With love usually comes terrific fear. Nearly every women comes into the world with a mythical woman in the back of her mind who is to rob her of her love. So long as she visualizes interference, it will come. It is usually very difficult for a woman to see herself loved by the man she loves, so these affirmations are to impress the truth of the situation upon her subconscious mind, for in reality there is only oneness. The light of the Christ within now wipes out all fear, doubt, anger and resentment. I see only perfection and draw to me my own.
Divine Love, through me, now dissolves all seeming obstacles and makes clear, easy and successful my way. I love everyone and everyone loves me.
Has your Twin Flame left you and are you looking to move on?
My apparent enemy becomes my friend, a golden link in the chain of my good. I am at peace with myself and with the whole world. Remember that you're never truly separated on a soul level - energy has no true boundaries, and the Twin Flames are always connected. If you wish to clear some of the karmic basis of your current separation and work on releasing the energy that is currently keeping you out of alignment with each other, I would recommend looking into the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames.
Hello Cassady, I think I found my twin flame. It feels totally different than I experienced ever before. What about free will? Free will is paramount on earth. The universe supports us in creating a life that best suits us, and it is up to us to figure out what we want and are willing to create.
I LOVE this blog post the most for my current circumstances. Amazing words as always. Will make sure I keep all of them in mind for the future. Can you feel the cord that attaches you to your twin? There are times when I can literally feel something in my right shoulder blade on my back. Could this be happening when he thinks of me? Hey, this post makes so much sense. I just found out yesterday night thst my twin is in a relationship with someone he loves.
She lives in the same city as me and he has to travel to see her.
I saw him a few weeks ago out of the blue early one morning waiting for the bus. When I found out yesterday that he is in a relationship, it first felt like someone punched my heart really hard and then I felt at peace, which to me was very strange. I started becoming super happy and alsowas crying because the news was fresh. I also started thinking thst the more negativity I sent out, the more I would get back. It was strange that yesterday before I went to bed and I thought of him being with someone else, I got this weird tense feeling of him not truly being happy.
I found it strange that I felt like he was not truly happy but he is happy. Also weird that I felt and feel so at peace.
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Oh also when I found out and started feeling St peace, I still felt him near me, like we were together and always have been. Is this normal when you have awakened a lot? I really love this, it makes total sense. But there is one thing that concerns me. So currently he feels nothing for me. He said he suppressed them because it was too much to handle.
So how do I go about this situation? The fact that our connection was so intense that he had to suppress the memories worries me as I am currently facing all of the memories and pain to heal. Buy Drugs Without a Prescription. Joseph de Saram Rhodium. Find Businesses in Australia. Internet Services in Australia. Best Magazine in India. Most palpably, he can feel my pain from thousands of miles away, but jealousy is the least of it. I met my twin 3 years ago and from then to now we have both grown tremendously.
He was involved with another girl but she literally does everything I do, she is similar in many ways. Everyone always points out that he treats me way better than he ever has her, he comes and goes and every time he comes back things are better and better between us. My twin is running like a track star! Its been a month and I know nothing about her life other than some feeling I get from within. I needed to read this! Since meeting her she was more into me than me into her at first I have been obsessed with spiritual enlightenment.
I just know my job in all of this is becoming the best version of me possible. At its core I know I have to learn how to truly love myself. The pathway to Xanadu is unmarked and treacherous. My twin and I grew up together.